Sometimes I hate waking up. I never know what to do first thing in the morning. I was never a morning person. Now that I am a mother I figure it’s about damn time I make a schedule for myself to live by so that I don’t lose my marbles everyday – because it gets tiring trying to find them day after day.
I don’t really like schedules. Growing up I always hated structure. I related it with institutions and being all about anarchy I HATED everything that had to do with institutions. Being 25 – still an anarchist – I know enough that a little structure isn’t all that bad. Done right it can actually do some good.
A friend I only see a couple times a year (if that) took Yuri and me to the movies this weekend. It was good to just spend some time with him even though we didn’t really get a chance to catch up that much. I started thinking about all the friends I’ve lost touch with over the years and I want to start making time… but first I have to make time for myself so that I don’t go nuts trying to catch up with everyone all at once.
I figure taking small steps at first is the best choice. This is how it will start:
Movie Night Monday: Obviously Yuri and I will be doing things throughout the day but it will all lead up to the movie that was chosen for the night. Sort of like a scavenger hunt throughout the day to guess what movie I have chosen for him to watch. It’s going to be sooo fun! haha
Tunes Times Tuesday’s: I kind of already scheduled this day for music for the blog, so why not incorporate to actual life? Every Tuesday I will have different musical activities for both Yuri and I to do.
Reading Rainbow Wednesday’s: I think this is pretty self-explanatory.
Arts & Crafts Thursday’s: This weekend I was pretty down because both Yuri and I got severely sunburned while we were out camping the week before. Instead of sulking pitifully around all day, I came up with an idea. Well maybe Yuri came up with the idea. No. Both of us did. I was boiling some noodles for lunch and Yuri got into the noodles and started playing with them. They are the kind of noodles that I used to make necklaces with when I was a little girl. So after lunch I got out the water-colors and Yuri painted some noodles and made a necklace.
We had so much fun with it, and I really need to set aside an entire day to my own arts & crafts anyways, so it will be saucesome!
Fútbol Fridays: Ya know, for soccer and sports and spanish and german and french and such.
So there’s my weekly schedule. Weekends will be a free-for-all because we all know how those goes. I left lots of room purposefully for a little bit of tweaking here and there. Maybe I won’t feel so dragged down all the time now. Knowing what I will be doing with my kiddo on a daily basis will, hopefully, give me some time and space to sort out some other (somewhat) important aspects of my life.
– ❤ Ari